Profile sunbear23: Looking for Something Substantial

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Would Describe Myself As I'm a young man with an old soul. I'm ambitious and focused, and its proven successful for my career and a little rough on my social/love life. I've lived in Chicago for about a year now, and I've tried going out and meeting people the "traditional" way to no avail, and although I haven't had much more luck on the web I would feel hypocritical saying I feel lonely sometimes without taking the proactive steps to help remedy that. I'm a fierce rationalist, but its balanced against a hopeless romanticism. I totally believe in love at first sight and all that good stuff. I overthink everything, but I also have a good sense of humor and can find humor in almost anything.
Sign Capricorn

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

Status What do you do?

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Nerd
My Social Behavior Is Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are Exercising, Reading, Music, Movies, Games, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel, Camping
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Clubbing / Bars, Extreme Sports, Reading A Book, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be An ideal first date for me would start with that connection that floors you. You can feel yourself being drawn to that person immediately. Your eyes rarely break from each other. The setting doesn't matter as much to me, could be a simple dinner, a show, or just grabbing a cup of coffee. Conversation would just flow easily, we could bounce from topic to topic but still weave elements from earlier in the conversation into the present topics. We could delve in cerebral concepts and deepest philosophies but still keep it light. Most of all though I think we should both be laughing for at least 88% of the date :-D
I've Always Wanted To Try Sky Diving, Bungee Jumping, Base Jumping, Rock Climbing (not on a gym wall), Producing a Guerilla Dance Piece, Petting a Shark, Deep Sea Diving, Walking on the Moon, Getting Kinkier in the bedroom
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Troublemaker, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Not Religious
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are Liberal
My Goal In Life Is I guess since the prompt is for 1 singular goal, mine would be to be able to look back at my life at its end and be able to say that I truly lived it; without restraint, without fear, without resentment for my failures, and with pride for my accomplishments.
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Country, Rap, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Ambient, Dance, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read Classic, Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Satire, Science
My Idea Of Fun Is My idea of fun varies from day to day. Some days I might be feeling adventurous and want to explore something new (restaurant, activity, etc), or do something daring (I've always wanted to kayak through downtown Chicago, sky dive, bungee jump, base jump, etc etc, lol). Other days my idea of fun might be more laid back, catch a movie, go to the beach and chill, or just lay around cuddling and watching some tube :-) Although it seems tacky, I think I'm gonna cave and put sex as well. If I really connect with someone, the best days can be spent in the bed entirely.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? I realized recently that the men I fantasize about and the men I've been dating have been totally different. So I'm looking for a muscular, masculine (but not hyper-masculine) man who's balanced by a sensitive and empathetic part of themselves. I'm looking for someone who's intelligent, but isn't condescending. Someone who's witty and can make me laugh. I'm looking for that guy that floors me with one glance.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed