Profile bleuro: The Sacred and the Profane

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Can Speak English, French
I Would Describe Myself As "But how will I know who my Soulmate is?" "By taking risks, " Wicca said to Brida. "By risking failiure, disappointment, disillusion, but never ceasing in your search for Love. As long as you keep looking, you will triumph in the end."
Paulo Coelho- Brida

The edges are maybe getting a little softer, but the edginess will always be there. It's who I am. Honest and direct, sometimes to a fault, but it is important to me. I was told something recently that may be good advice, but is a difficult concept for me to embrace. You can't get to the next level if you don't play the game. If I have to stand alone because I don't feel the same way as my peers, colleagues or anybody else, so be it.

The tension in the "Friend or Lover?" stage when you first meet and start getting to know someone is delicious, but how about, instead of dropping oh so subtle hints about how you feel and then acting freaked out when they are acted upon, and pulling out the "I don't see us that way" line, only to resume dropping hints shortly thereafter, you amaze yourself and step over that line and do or say something to help you get what you want and make two people happy instead of resorting to manipulation and deceit based on fear? A tough one, I know. I struggle with it myself. Okay, enough venting. Bottom line. I don't do manipulation or deceit. Either way.

43. 5' 11", 175 pounds, shaved head, blue eyes, moderately hairy. Monogamous, LTR-oriented. (Last relationship lasted 14 years). Looking to date locally and meet new friends, contacts, and who knows what else worldwide. Like witty, furry, intelligent men. Don't just be about what's between your legs, have something between your ears as well. Sensuality is as important as sexuality. Be with me and present, and not just a body next to me in bed. Curious about leather, and open to discussion with safe, sane, experienced leathermen about exploring that further.

Reading, movies, music, (Alternative, Indie, Punk, Funk, Rock, Gothic, Disco, Soul, Electronica, Jazz), languages, travel. Goatee or full beard.
Sign Leo

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Slim
My Height Is 5' 11 (1.8 m)
My Eyes Are Blue
My Ethnicity Is European
My Marital Situation Is Single
I Have Kids No
I Want Kids No
My Best Feature Is Eyes
Body Art Pierced... But Only Ear(s)
My Hair Is Light Brown
I Have One Or More Of These No pets
Willing To Relocate No

Status What do you do?

I Live With Roomate(s)
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is Observant
My Interest And Hobbies Are Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Travel, Cars, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be casual, no expectations, seeing if there's chemistry and what happens after that
I've Always Wanted To Try Skiing
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Other
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are Democrat
My Goal In Life Is To live a happy life without hurting myself or anyone else.
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy, Sadistic

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Horror, Thriller, Adult
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Rap, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read Fiction, Philosophy, Religious
My Idea Of Fun Is A laiback date, seeing if there's chemistry and what happens after that

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? Be real. No games.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Date