Profile truegrit: Black Sub Cub Seeks Den Mate

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As Hey, guys. I'm a 46 y/o Black cub enjoying life in Chicago, my hometown. I'm a happy man blessed with a great family, close friendships, a good job, and a comfortable abode, and I'd love to have a cool, sweet dude with whom to share some of life's abundant pleasures and joys. While I am looking toward a committed relationship at some point (when the fit is right), I understand that establishing that level of committment takes time, wise decision-making, the slow building of trust, mutuality and compatibility. And all of that begins with the first date. So, let's start there.

I am 5'8", 215, hairy (chest, back, butt, legs, arms) good-looking, shaved head and very short beard. I am a clean, honest, healthy, sane, friendly, easy-going, welcoming man. I seek those same qualities in other men. I am HIV-, STD-, d/d-free. Sexually, I am a total bottom, mostly oral (love to have a man kick back, relax and enjoy the pleasures my mouth provide), but I'm hoping to meet the right guy who can guide me to being his complete bottom.

While I'm totally open to meeting men of any age, I tend to prefer men over 40. Your looks, body type, sexual endowment and endurance (you know, all those things that seem to mean the world to most gay men. . .LOL) are less important to me than your personality, intellect, sense of humor, integrity and honesty. Yes, I'm serious.

I want to be with a man who really enjoys both quiet evenings home with a DVD and good food and small gatherings with friends and/or family. I love to dance, but hitting the clubs and bars is not very important to me anymore. Chicago (and your city, too) has so much to offer culturally, it would be a joy to share it all with my guy.

Don't be shy, men. Let's talk. Hope to hear from you.
Sign Aquarius

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Stocky
My Height Is 5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are Brown
My Ethnicity Is African American
My Marital Situation Is Single
I Have Kids No
I Want Kids Not Sure
My Best Feature Is Eyes
Body Art Pierced... But Only Ear(s), Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is Black
I Have One Or More Of These No pets
Willing To Relocate Yes

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Politics / Government
My Job Title Is Deacon, Church of The Poison Mind (LOL!)
I Make This Much In A Year $60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live Alone
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Brain
My Social Behavior Is Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Dancing, Family, Dining, Theater, Cooking
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Casino, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be First dates should be as low-stress/pressure as possible. For me, that means meeting at a quiet coffeehouse or cafe on a Saturday morning so that we can talk easily, feel each other out, and ascertain compatibility.
I've Always Wanted To Try dating a gay bear or cub.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Troublemaker, Cool, Goofy

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is As corny as it may sound, my goal in life is to always strive to be the best man I can be. That means self-improvement (emotional, spritual, physical), being emotionally available to my family and friends, not repeating mistakes, giving thought to major decisions, and wisely allowing only good people into my life.
My Kind Of Humor Is Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure, Raunchy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Country, Rock, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Dance, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Home & Garden, Horror, Humor, Instructional, Mystery, Philosophy, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is Out: My friends, my dude and I hitting a club that has great cocktails and slamming House Music. Or all of us taking in a great movie followed by dinner and drinks. Afterwards, my man and I make out, make love, sleep well!

In (my preference): My guy and I cuddling on the sofa, a big bowl of popcorn, a good movie on DVD. Then good loving and spooning.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? I don't want to convolute this answer. I like a culturally savvy man of average appearance (I'm not hung up on any particular race, age, body type, etc.), simple and natural masculinity (this has NOTHING to do with being "straight-acting"-- Yuck), a high level of integrity and honesty, and some working idea of what he wants from life and in a partner. I want a man who loves and accepts me for who I am, and I will return that love and acceptance to him. I want a man who is physically affectionate and who is a top that prefers a more passive--yet masculine--partner. At this point in my life I'm ready to be with a man who wants to settle down and live life with me. A man who has kids is great by me because I LOVE kids and would make a great co-parent.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Date, Intimate, Committed