Profile dadecitybear: Single Bear Here

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As I am a 56 year old male that has recently become a widower from a 25 year gay marriage. I seek same age or younger for fun and possibly an LTR. I am educated, funny, good natured, intelligent, and single. I am a true versatile person. It depends on chemistry and what the other person is into. I love to cuddle and kiss. I own my home outright. Willing to travel and host at home. I am a pudge in that I am about 5'7-5'8 and weigh in at 220. This is what happens when I quit smoking. I do not drink, but do not mind a social drinker. I am a retired semi-pro musician. I have worked in education, mental health, and vocational rehabilitation. I am currently underemployed and seeking a new career path. I am seeking a roommate as well. I am a nudist at heart and have a private courtyard in which I can sun bath or meander in nude. I will respond to all even if we are not a match. Make contact. Don't be shy.
Sign Gemini

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

Status What do you do?

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Class Clown
My Social Behavior Is Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are Arts & Crafts, Cars, Computers, Cooking, Dining, Games, Gardening, Music, Reading
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be for dinner or an outing with a person where there is mutual attraction. It would be one where the other person was secure enough in themselves to not say "I love you" halfway through the first date.
I've Always Wanted To Try extreme sports.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are Democrat
My Goal In Life Is Currently my goal in life is regaining stability after coming through a tremendously stressful two years.
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Raunchy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Blues, Classical, Dance, Folk, Jazz, Metal, Pop, Reggae, Rock, Soul, I'm A Recording Artist
When I Read, I Always Read Ancient, Computers, Fantasy, History, Horror, Instructional, Philosophy, Supernatural, Reference, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is Going to the beach, being with friends in social situations, going to movies, antiquing, recording and playing music, nesting, engaging in conversation with intelligent people. laughing, sharing my life with another, reading a book, watching a good movie at home. Setting goals and achieving them. A day in bed with the right person.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Empathy, Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For? I am not sure what I look for. However, what I have found to be true is that I end up with highly intellectual, well educated men that have a sense of humor, are history buffs or professors, professionals in education or healthcare. In my two relationships that spanned 35 years it was chance meetings that brought us together. I wasn't conciously looking for anything at the time. I like Men, not femininity in men. I am currently looking for dates. I haven't done this in years so I am a regenerated virgin when it comes to dating. I am open to many different relationships, but ultimately would like to meet another man that I could have a LTR with. I can never replace the person that I was with for 25 years, so I am looking for someone to that I am compatible with and has similar interests. Of course, this may change over time. The way I look at my life right at the moment is that I have a clean slate to work from. I can be whomever I want to be, I can explore new things or things that I have always wanted to explore. Maybe someone out there will come along for the ride with me.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Friend, Date, Intimate