Profile bigredeo: I believe in dating

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As I'm not straight but most of my friends are. Probably because I'm more comfortable at a sports bar, a bowling alley or a karaoke contest with friends than I am being at a gay bar.

I don't have a lot of skeletons in my closet - and speaking of which - I'm completely out of the closet. My family and friends are cool with who I am and they would love for me to meet the right guy. I'd love to find someone who can make me laugh. Someone who likes people and himself. Someone who is real! I'm more likely to fall for a "real man" than a pretty boy. (MUST be a NON-smoker)

My true passion is theatre. While I love acting, I also love to see both professional and community productions. I'm very involved with theatre throughout the year. I'm also a writer of both music and words. I enjoy going out for a drive, amusement parks - I am a rollercoaster and Disneyland fanatic, game nights with friends, hitting fun events like Lebowskifest in Louisville, KY or Pride Night at Kings Island, and going back home at least once a year to visit my family in California (I grew up in California, but have been in the Cleveland area for the past 16 years). Of course, I'd love to travel more.

And while I'm being honest here, I believe in dating someone and getting to know them before even thinking about getting in bed together. I am a "new-fashioned" gay in that I believe that sex should only be within the context of a committed relationship.

And the one thing that I think would be the hardest to find, while I'm being honest, my perfect guy would be someone who is a Top in every way EXCEPT sexually. Someone who's going to make me feel protected and safe, emotionally, mentally and physically, but when we're in the bedroom, I'm on top!
Sign Virgo

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is 6' 2 (1.88 m)
My Eyes Are Brown
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Single
I Have Kids No
I Want Kids Not Sure
Body Art Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is Auburn / Red

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is Programmer/Analyst
I Make This Much In A Year $60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live Alone
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Brain
My Social Behavior Is Shy, Observant, Comedic, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Theater, Travel, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Troublemaker, Obscure, Goofy

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are Liberal
My Kind Of Humor Is Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Obscure

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows, Soaps
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Animation, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Rock, Electronic, Pop, Jazz, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read Comic, Humor, Mystery, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is Amusement parks, movies, karaoke, theatre - both onstage and in the audience, traveling

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
What Do You Look For? MUST BE A NON-SMOKER!
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Date, Committed