Profile UTbigfella: Big & tall looking for friends & dates

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As I'm very easy going/down to earth. I love having fun with friends and family, love to laugh. I try to avoid chaos, negativity & disrespect. I am drawn to people who have a good self-awareness, have humility & gratitude as well as the ability to enjoy life simply. I'm not perfect and I don't seek perfection in others. I identify with people who are honest, generally happy, genuine and kind. I don't live luxuriously, and I like simple pleasures.

I look for honesty, humility, masculinity and open-mindedness. I`d be glad to find one man to love who is at peace with himself, open to change, optimistic, able to see good in others, able to speak his mind but listen as well. If you can really communicate with your partner, you've got it made. I am a "big & tall" man (aka. tall & heavy) who has a good heart and a lot of love to give. Things that turn me off: disrespect, chaos, vanity, negativity, closed-mindedness and those who talk a lot but do not listen.

My perception of an ideal relationship: Ideally, I would like to spend a lot of time on quality of life. The most important thing two people can build is love. Other than that, I would not mind having the "American ideal" of house, dogs, a garden (maybe even kids someday?). If we're financially able, I'd love to start seeing other parts of the world too.

As far as physical traits, I like tall or short, skinny or heavy, hairy or smooth and race is not important to me either. If you are a man and act like one, we will get along well. I have been more particularly drawn to traits like dark hair, brown eyes, blue eyes, a great smile and an age-range within 10 years of my age (older or younger), give or take. I like tattoos but don't have any of my own (yet). Not a huge fan of piercings, but they are not a deal-breaker for me. Basic hygiene goes a long way, and I appreciate someone who makes an effort (without spending too much time in front of the mirror). And no offense to those men who are feminine, but I am not attracted to that quality in men. It isn't a judgment or anything, it is just a personal preference when it comes to dating & relationships. If you are 100% top or 100% bottom, and if anal sex is your favorite thing in the world, we may not be a good match. If I'm in love, I will do almost anything with my partner, but I don't go that far with someone I'm dating, or someone I don't know very well.

If you've read all of this, my hat goes off to you. If I haven't overshared or bored you to tears, send me a message!
Sign Cancer

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Heavyset
My Height Is Taller Than 6' 4 (1.93 m)
My Eyes Are Green
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Single
I Have Kids No
I Want Kids Not Sure
My Hair Is Brown
I Have One Or More Of These No pets
Willing To Relocate Yes

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Sales / Marketing
I Live With Roomate(s)
At Home Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - One Or Two

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is Friendly, Observant, Shy
My Interest And Hobbies Are Arts & Crafts, Computers, Dining, Family, Internet, Games, Movies, Music, Photography, Tv
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Playing Video Games, Relaxing, Sleeping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv
An Ideal First Date Would Be The ideal date is usually not the first date. First date should be somewhere cozy & public, like a coffee shop or library or a park, to get to know each other and see if any chemistry is there.
I've Always Wanted To Try I've always wanted to try different career paths like cooking, barbershop, masseuse or designer. I've also been curious about getting tattoos but haven't done it yet.
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Goofy

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Spiritual But Not Religious
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is My goal in life is to be able to 1) love other people, 2) love another person intimately and 3) love myself. At the end of my life, I want to be able to say that I have helped other people, given people joy or taught them something.
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch Cartoons, Dramas, Movies, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Animation, Horror, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Ambient, Country, Dance, Electronic, Folk, Jazz, New age, Pop, Rock, Soul
When I Read, I Always Read Comic, Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is Dinner and a movie with friends, road trips, amusement parks, yard sales & thrift stores, the occasional night out with friends to have a few drinks.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Boldness, Empathy, Humor, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For? At the risk of sounding shallow, I need to be physically attracted to someone. The eyes and face will draw me in. I tend to like black or brown hair, big eyebrows, a great smile, but these are not set in stone. On a more important level, I look for someone who has kindness, gratitude, honesty, a sense of humor and loyalty.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Internet Buddy, Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed