Profile COMusicLover: Looking for a LTR

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

First name Jeffrey
I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As I`m looking for someone monogamous, honest, loving and trustworthy. I believe I possess these qualities and need the same out of a partner. I want someone who doesn’t get uptight about the small stuff. If you are still in the closet please move along. I`m not interested in dating anyone who still has problems being gay. I avoid drama as much as possible. I need someone who wants intimacy as much as sex. I like an equal balance. I also would like them to be totally out. This doesn't mean you have to march in a pride parade every weekend but simply want to live your life like any other couple not hiding or being ashamed of our relationship. You also must be an animal lover. I have several pets and take my responsibility to them seriously.

It would also be nice if you love Colorado and the mountains. That is the main reason I moved to the this area of the country. For years I lived in Florida on the Gulf and never had an interest for the area. After vacationing here a few times I knew right away that I needed to be close to the mountains. I like getting in my Wrangler and driving the back roads in the mountains finding new and interesting places. Most of all I`m looking for someone who treats me well and treats others the same.

It has taken me many years to figure out what I am and what I want. I've tried conforming to other peoples view of what I should be and that has not made me happy. I will say that I`m pretty sensitive at times. I`m trying to learn to not wear my heart on my sleeve as it gets hurt quite often that way. In the past I have been pretty naive I guess, but am trying to wake up and not be so blindly trusting. I know that sounds bad, but my blind trust of people has not really paid off in the past so I'm trying to be a little more cautious.

Well, I'm kind of old fashioned about relationships. I don`t sleep with someone on the first date. I like romantic stuff. I always envisioned myself being a stay at home dad with a couple of children. Problem is I never have met anyone else that felt that way so now I`m nearly 42 and that thought has passed. If you are looking for someone that you would describe as “very masculine” then that’s not me. On a scale from 1 to 10 of masculinity I would say I’m somewhere in the 7-8 range. I feel that I`m more of a nurturing type of person and therefore often take that role in a relationship. The problem with that is that most of the people I have dated have taken advantage of that. While I do a lot for others and want to please people I have needs myself. It seems not many people these days know how to treat others, not even their partner.

I like a guy that is different from me. By that I mean I like having someone that fills the gaps in my personality. Sure, you have to have some basic beliefs that are the same, but I don`t want an identical copy of myself. I could not live with someone like me, haha. I need someone who can be strong, but caring. Someone who can take charge when needed, but still respects my opinion and cares what I think. Someone smart and passionate. A persons personality can make them or break them for me regardless of looks. I`m not into group sex, open relationships or anything like that.

I`m shy at first, but warm up quickly. Please contact me if you are interested.
Sign Leo

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is 5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are Blue
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Single
I Have Kids No
I Want Kids Yes
My Best Feature Is Eyes
My Hair Is Dark Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These Dog
Willing To Relocate Yes

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is Student
My Speciality Is Art / Music / Literature
I Make This Much In A Year Less Than $14,999USD
I Live With Roomate(s)
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Nerd
My Social Behavior Is Comedic, Friendly, Reserved, Shy
My Interest And Hobbies Are Computers, Internet, Games, Movies, Music, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Goofy

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Agnostic
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are Liberal
My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Ambient, Classical, Country, New age, Pop
When I Read, I Always Read Computers, Fiction, Romance, Science Fiction, Technical

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Empathy, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Committed